Who Are Sex Therapists and What Do they Do?

" Welcome to our web -- I'm David spoke on that topic today is therapy. You may have heard about it that much you really know about it. A lot of people seek out a therapy to help them when they think their sex lives are going the way they'd like you to your -- having problems we're gonna Scott. The topic that there be joining me a couple of expert from the medical field on my -- doctor Robert. And sitting there or Dr. Phil what is doctor can Rosenberg he's a psychiatrist. Affiliated with New York Presbyterian Hospital in Cornell university medical center. He also in private practice in New York specialized in substance abuse and sexual sorters and gentlemen thanks for joining us on the web -- and Dr. Phil which show let's start with you. Give us the definition what is that there would they do. Well."

" It and -- licensed qualified. Health professionals. Real. We're here to help people who have sexual problems either in your relationship with your partner or actual problems that are interfering with their life and situated getting a lot of uncomfortable in serious problems. And doctor Rosenberg are sex therapist and how do you become a -- and -- license term. Well hopefully her life and people can buy right away but. But unfortunately. -- apparently becoming the college counselors psychiatrists we have board and not you know. And knowing people watching and exams and a whole protocol on them and on -- seminar or -- Several a year it's. Study course and at Cornell university in her native New York here's really -- Law that really prohibit people from calling themselves."

" So you try to find. A good therapists agree that our college who has and specialties -- and disorder is. He did you don't know how to I went out there. And -- suit too good to see sex therapists what are the reasons -- go -- man I mean -- the most common reasons or mental problem right now wrecked out. In an instant. Injuries one and Al pressure without listening around Viagra and and and and ejaculation was crying -- my -- again. A lot of women come to correct -- and a lot -- there are. A concern for better sex."

" Lane and it somebody were to go to -- there. Is that -- that they decide on their -- they usually. -- down by partner. And he motivates us. Many didn't -- I would go there it depends on the situation at hand but. He's your product because you're too embarrassed about talking to someone about it and someone you trust you don't care about to a lot. Really goes hatton and pushing along the law or you have indeed the insight yourself to realize that you don't do nothing about gonna create further problems in your life. Opera. And I've heard of that sex surrogate now. At the same as the sex therapist and if not what it."

" Well on the sex therapist and -- are very pleased to report sex surrogates -- people who have sex with that are. -- I'm and some sex therapist who prefer something Erica I'm actually do not. I find that if you don't have that -- probably. In some problems and interpersonal and addressed. On. And I and -- and terribly and sexually transmitted diseases and wanting to I don't hurt my contract. Is with. Professional and lots of folks I don't mean like are more in a professional sex surrogate I mean there actually people. Under America and professional people that would have -- our people loudly when not in Vietnam numbered them -- conference meetings or or what is the gold but it goes to the sex therapists. In -- through. When they get there what are they hoping to ability for -- it is. -- very thorough and and believe it or not most doctors don't talk about. Something therapists can offer in any. Rational. Intelligent. Well educated person talk about accident in line. And first and I would say infamous therapeutic and -- offer a counter medications they can do what are your -- from Iraq and and you are your thoughts that you know when and news and where -- an. But the but the most important thing in mind you particularly. Are in Iraq normal rational recently about acts and about everything about -- him and then immediately and fans are -- and I learned about acts and things that we. As individuals never -- not speak about -- and anyone."

" One of the reasons why people com or or widely calendar. Function. One of the major online. -- they have this. And that they have to report. Things -- remain focused. In -- reached an organ. They feel that doing so will be it will -- pleased to -- And the pressure on actually mortgages and that they get in sight of the fact. That should focus in on the whole entire experienced partner. And sanctions the pleasures impatience. From text there is it just all about talking and learning meditation or whatever technique. You used in fact. It's a wonder what is the sense that focus. In -- and sexual education a lot of people think you know ethical mormons do you certainly don't understand there's a lot more than achieving an -- One of the things that translate well does. It through ages and -- The -- couple. Learn to go and focus on other things besides the actual -- actually get enjoyment. Pleasure and other. And it's a graduated. A totally up to the point where you're now make it together. And having -- But prior to your dad. You really focusing on what can -- relationship communication skills. Out of restructuring. And other technique that keep -- used equipment and structured to talk about the situation. -- This happened with the with couples have been together long -- to and -- started dating somebody."

" Really there depends on the individual I think dialogue you don't want your brand new Koppel regularly. And Manny and and -- in her. On the other hand some couple -- have a severe problems. And there kind of at a crossroads in Berlin and even early on sexual problems they're going after an. Error to. It could be and be you know I mean it and particularly I'm in recovery and a man who. It's a really wasn't able intercourse at all so as soon as he got my partner and you can't -- expire. So they could have a meaningful shift. The other couples are problems that occur later on government. And they can occur for any number of cultural psychological and biological. And there could you know could do any number of things from. -- April technique as tactful. Than prescribed Medicaid opinion on this commitment and which in the first thing of course Altera do is diagnosed it's an Antarctic. Are not properly -- the -- treated accordingly."

" And very quickly let me backtrack a little bit. How many people think well had been together and maybe I think I'm just not. Aroused by in my life in war. Can usually get aroused by other -- other people yeah yeah yeah and it Wagoner and -- explore what the issue is there like a commitment phobia that's going on. And every time that we hadn't become erect and that means they're going to now become closer and more intimate. It puts more stress and pressure on and on him to feel that he you know connected and more closer -- starts to feel pressure about responsible promotional welfare. And it. And that'll last word are actually last response but the question is covered by insurance. There. And the problem insurance. If formidable. Can be -- provider news and threatens a bonafide medical conditions. Should be covered by. Thank you very much a doctor Robert -- and doctor Rosenberg you've been watching our webcast. On sex -- hope you learned something I'm David folk Thomas Ian."